Relationship Coaching
PROGRAM FOR MEN
If your wife or long-term partner is pulling away or asking for space, learn how we can rebuild your relationship or marriage in less than 8 weeks.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Win Your Wife or Partner Back
Proven step-by-step strategies to restore admiration & trust and rekindle her love
Create a Thriving Relationship
Transform your relationship by increasing “positive sentiment override”
All Coaching, No Therapy
Unlike therapy, we focus on positive psychology and offer actionable solutions to get results fast
HOW IT WORKS

PRIVATE EXPERT COACHING
Access our private team of industry-leading experts from our relationship coaches to sex and intimacy mentors and celebrity stylists, we’ve got everything you need to win at love.

ONLINE CURRICULUM & WORKBOOK
Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to build a thriving relationship.

WEEKLY COACHING WITH EMYLI
Live coaching calls to strategize on every step of your relationship journey.

PRIVATE CLIENT COMMUNITY
Get the peer-to-peer support you need and build friendships with men you trust.
Our Relationship Story
We met and fell in love in 2012 but in 2019, Emyli asked for space, deciding to take 40 days away to reflect and determine if she wanted to continue the relationship.
During those 40 days, Thomas made a commitment to step up and win. He took massive action to improve himself and win back Emyli’s heart.
Fast forward to 2025, and we are happily married with two dogs and children. We’ve turned our journey into a mission, dedicating our time to helping men rebuild their relationships, even when it seems impossible. If we could overcome our struggles, so can you.
OUR PROGRAM PILLARS
Habits men live by.
We teach men how to take 100% responsibility for themselves and to develop habits that set them up to lead their loved ones. If you’ve let yourself go a little, perhaps you’ve relaxed your standards on your wardrobe, exercise, or diet.
Maybe you’ve stopped date nights or started gaming, binging Netflix, or scrolling social media. Maybe you’ve given up hobbies that you used to enjoy. Whatever it is, our program will bring you back to the full warrior leader we know you have the potential of being. The man that your wife or girlfriend first fell in love with.
Habits men live by.
We teach men how to take 100% responsibility for themselves and to develop habits that set them up to lead their loved ones. If you’ve let yourself go a little, perhaps you’ve relaxed your standards on your wardrobe, exercise, or diet.
Maybe you’ve stopped date nights or started gaming, binging Netflix, or scrolling social media. Maybe you’ve given up hobbies that you used to enjoy. Whatever it is, our program will bring you back to the full warrior leader we know you have the potential of being. The man that your wife or girlfriend first fell in love with.
Your Relationship Roadmap
Exceeding your wife’s expectations and fulfilling their needs is the secret to avoiding divorce or separation. Sometimes, when we are in conflict, we find only surface level “relationship poisons” or bad habits of nagging or criticizing our partner.
In our private coaching sessions, we help you create a custom roadmap to become highly skilled at recognizing the underlying needs of your wife in order to reduce repetitive cycles of conflict and bring joy, trust, and passion back into the relationship.
A Proven Step-by-Step Process
The #1 mistake we see with clients is trying to rebuild their relationship by talking about their problems. The key to a solid relationship? 20 positive interactions to 1 negative one. Unlike therapy, we focus on positives and move away from traditional therapeutic models that promote hashing out negative patterns in the relationship.
Instead we focus on filling up the relationship bank account with validation, celebrating each other’s wins, and recognizing that both parties ultimately want the same things: love and connection.
Our Unique Approach
Our program offers several learning pathways to help you rebuild your marriage or relationship from the ground up.
- Group + Private Coaching
- Community Focused
- 11 Expert Coaches
- Robust Curriculum
- Workbook
- Lifetime Membership
- Third Party Reviews
Other Options
- Group Coaching Only
- On Your Own
- 1 or 2 Coaches
- Minimal or No Curriculum
- No Workbook
- 6 Week Course
- No Third Party Reviews
CLIENT TESTIMONIALS
FAQs
A relationship coach for men is an expert dedicated to assisting individuals in achieving their relationship goals. At emlovz, we are not merely represented by a single coach, but rather a community of professionals committed to helping you save your marriage, cultivate a thriving relationship with a new partner, or successfully rebuild your current relationship.
Relationship coaching and couples therapy serve distinct purposes and can be effective in different ways depending on the needs of the individuals or couples involved. Here’s how relationship coaching can be more effective than couples therapy in certain contexts:
- Focus on Present and Future Goals: Relationship coaching often focuses on current relationship dynamics and future goals. It’s forward-looking and goal-oriented, helping individuals or couples define what they want to achieve in their relationships and providing practical steps to get there.
- Skill-Building and Practical Techniques: Relationship coaching typically involves teaching specific skills and techniques that can immediately be applied in real-life situations. Coaches often provide tools for effective communication, conflict resolution, intimacy building, and goal setting. This practical approach can empower couples to make tangible improvements in their relationship dynamics.
- Flexibility and Customization: Coaching sessions are often more flexible in terms of scheduling and content compared to traditional couples therapy. Coaches tailor their approach to the unique needs and preferences of the individuals or couples they work with. This customization can make the coaching process feel more relevant and personal, addressing specific issues as they arise in real-time.
- Preventative and Proactive Approach: Relationship coaching is not only for couples in crisis but also for those seeking to strengthen their relationship preventatively. It encourages proactive behavior and helps couples develop resilience and skills to navigate challenges before they escalate. This can lead to long-term benefits in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
- Support and Accountability: Coaches often provide ongoing support and accountability outside of sessions, helping couples stay focused on their goals and motivated to implement changes. This continuous support can reinforce positive behaviors and ensure progress over time.
- Emphasis on Individual Growth: Relationship coaching acknowledges that individual growth contributes to relationship success. Coaches help individuals understand themselves better, identify personal barriers to relationship satisfaction, and develop strategies for personal growth that can positively impact their partnership.
In contrast, couples therapy typically delves deeper into past issues, unresolved conflicts, and psychological dynamics that may be contributing to current relationship challenges. It often involves a licensed therapist who addresses mental health issues, trauma, and deep-seated emotional patterns that may require clinical intervention.
Our team of coaches at emlovz comprises highly qualified professionals with diverse expertise in relationship counseling and coaching.
Among them are intimacy trainers, neuroscience therapists, specialists in affairs, and certified relationship coaches such as Emyli and Thomas. Each coach brings extensive experience and specialized knowledge to support clients in various aspects of relationship development and improvement.
For instance, Thomas, an experienced relationship coach, offers unique insights gained from personal experience, including successfully reconciling with Emyli after a significant relationship challenge.
Our collective experience and qualifications enable us to provide effective guidance and strategies tailored to each client’s specific needs, fostering healthier and more fulfilling relationships.
This program is specifically designed for men who are proactive and motivated to make positive changes in their relationship or marriage. Here’s a more detailed expansion on who might benefit from this program:
- Action-Oriented Men: The program targets men who are not just passive observers in their relationships but are ready to take proactive steps towards improving them. This could include implementing new communication strategies, understanding their partner better, or making changes to their own behavior.
- Those Rebuilding Relationships: It caters to individuals who are currently in a relationship that has encountered challenges or difficulties. These men may be looking to rekindle the flame, resolve conflicts, and restore trust and intimacy with their partner.
- Men Building New Relationships: For those starting fresh in a new relationship, the program provides guidance on how to establish a strong foundation from the outset. This includes navigating early relationship dynamics, setting healthy boundaries, and fostering open communication.
- Individuals Seeking to Save Their Marriage: The program acknowledges that some participants might be facing the potential dissolution of their marriage. It offers structured approaches and proven methods to address underlying issues, mend broken bonds, and revitalize marital satisfaction.
- Men Wanting a Proven Process: The emphasis on a “proven process” indicates that the program provides structured, step-by-step methodologies and regular coaching sessions. This approach can appeal to individuals who prefer clear frameworks and actionable strategies to achieve their relationship goals.
Overall, this program is tailored to men who are committed to taking action to enhance their relationships, whether they are currently struggling, starting anew, or seeking to strengthen and preserve their marriages. It aims to equip them with practical tools and insights to navigate relationship challenges effectively and foster long-term relationship success.
emlovz isn’t just one person; it’s an entire team of relationship consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: helping you build a thriving relationship with an incredible partner.
Our relationship coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches come from diverse backgrounds and generations—millennials, Gen-X, and Gen-Z. We know how to help you communicate with women regardless of their age, background, or love language.
Our program, Relationships Decoded, includes:
- Live Weekly Coaching Calls
- Robust Online Curriculum
- The emlovz workbook
- Private Coaching Sessions with anyone on our team
- Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network
But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Relationships Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life.
We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation for you and your family, no matter how long it takes.
We’ve worked with men from 18 to 80 years old. You can master relationships at any age, as long as you’re willing to put in the hard work and have the right coaches to guide you. Our program is designed to help men of any and all ages who are interested in building a thriving relationship.
You tell me.
Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put in the work?
Then yes, relationship coaching will work for you.
Our most successful students are open to trying new things and are receptive to coaching.
That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means genuinely listening to and internalizing our advice and applying it consistently.
Our techniques have worked for thousands of men—why wouldn’t they work for you too?
It all begins with an onboarding call with Emyli or another member of our team.
During this call, we’ll develop your relationship roadmap where you’ll get a custom gameplan for how to move through the curriculum and private coaching sessions based on your unique situation. We’ll also get your sessions scheduled so you’re instantly setup for success.
We employ a comprehensive approach to turn our students into expert partners.
Here’s how:
Community
No one wants to navigate relationships alone. So don’t. We have a community full of men just like you. Our community is great for celebrating victories, sharing setbacks, bonding, and receiving real-time feedback on any relationship question you may have.
Online Curriculum
We’ve learned a lot in our over 10 years as men’s relationship coaches. To effectively share everything we’ve learned, we’ve developed an online learning platform covering nearly every romantic topic imaginable. This curriculum is self-paced and continuously updated and expanded.
200+ Page Workbook
When you enroll in our coaching program, we’ll ship you a stunning 200+ page hardcover workbook packed with engaging exercises designed to help you fully integrate our program principles into your life. And the best part? Your partner can join you for 80% of the activities, making it a collaborative experience!
Private Coaching Sessions
Your membership includes private sessions based on your unique situation. Whether it’s intimacy that you’re looking to improve, communication, confidence, or getting your wife back, we have expert coaches who can help you 1-on-1.
Unlimited Weekly Strategy Sessions
We understand how dynamic and nuanced relationships can be. That’s why you’ll have the opportunity to receive coaching and feedback directly from us in our live group Q&A calls that meet weekly.
While Thomas and I are based in the San Francisco Bay Area, our coaches hail from across the USA. What’s most important is finding a coach whose approach resonates with you.
If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.
You can also take a look at our brochure.
Click this magic blue link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.
Habits men live by.
A relationship is only as healthy as each individual partner. But we can only take responsibility for ourselves. In our program, we teach men how to take 100% responsibility for themselves and to develop habits that set them up to lead their families.
If you’ve let yourself go a little, perhaps you’ve relaxed your standards on your wardrobe, exercise routine, or diet. Maybe you’ve stopped planning date nights with your partner or started gaming, binging Netflix, or scrolling social media at night instead of connecting fully with your partner. Maybe you’ve given up hobbies that you used to enjoy when you were single or have been making friendships less of a priority. Whatever it is, our program will bring you back to the full warrior leader we know you have the potential of being. The man that your wife or girlfriend first fell in love with. And we’ll teach you skills to help your relationship and personal life flourish and thrive.
Wife’s emotional needs.
It’s important we become deeply cognizant of our partner’s wants and needs in a relationship. Sometimes, when we are in conflict, we find only surface level “relationship poisons” or bad habits of nagging or criticizing our partner.
In our program, we teach a concept developed by The Center for Thriving Relationships called “wonder and look under” where students become highly skilled at recognizing the underlying needs of their partners in order to reduce repetitive cycles of conflict, to create a more fulfilling partnership, and to ensure that the relationship flourishes. When we learn how to express our needs and identify the needs of our partner’s, we can more clearly satisfy them, become role models for our children and loved ones, and live a happier, healthier life.
Systems and processes to sustain a relationship.
A relationship is only as healthy as each individual partner. But we can only take responsibility for ourselves. In our program, we teach men how to take 100% responsibility for themselves and to develop habits that set them up to lead their families.
We adopt this approach and move away from traditional therapeutic models that promote hashing out negative patterns in the relationship. Instead we focus on filling up the relationship bank account with validation, celebrating each other’s wins, and recognizing that both parties ultimately want the same things: love and connection. We use scientific tools promoted by Dr. John Gottman’s research, Oregon psychologist, Robert Weiss’ work, and The Center for Thriving Relationships to help boost our positive sentiment override. In other words, we help couples increase the positive feelings they have for one another so much so that when conflict arises, it is easier to navigate and overcome.