dating coaching
PROGRAM FOR WOMEN
Best-in-class dating coaching program for women who want to find a long term relationship.
WHAT TO EXPECT
Learn how to MegaDate
Go on 1-2 dates a week with men who understand you and align with your values.
Unlimited Coaching + Curriculum
Best in class data-driven curriculum paired with unlimited coaching plus a vibrant community.
Lifetime Membership
Get coaching and support until you find your ideal partner or long-term relationship.
HOW IT WORKS

Weekly Coaching Calls
Meet with the emlovz team every week in live coaching calls to strategize on any step of your dating journey.

Online Curriculum & Workbook
Extensive online curriculum that walks you step-by-step through everything you need to know to find the perfect partner for you.

Private CLient Community
Get coaching & support in between the live coaching calls in our private client community.

Private Coaching w/ My Expert Team
Book private sessions with our celebrity stylist, intimacy coach, mock date experts, anxiety coach, and more.
IS THIS YOU?
Are you struggling to attract high quality, relationship-minded men? Are you worried that, once again, you’re going to select an incompatible man for your next relationship?
Is being single for an extended period of time making you feel inadequate? Do you feel like love is impossible for you? Can’t seem to attract emotionally available men?
Do you find yourself wondering if you can do better than the men you’ve been going on dates with? Is a past relationship holding you back from reaching your full potential in love?
We at emlovz believe that you deserve the perfect partner and you can find and attract the man of your dreams – and we can help you do it.
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY
Our program features a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful women who are on a similar journey.
Meet up in person with fellow clients in your city and forge lifelong friendships.
Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals.
Our program features a lifetime membership that provides unlimited coaching and support, along with a dynamic community of successful women who are on a similar journey.
Meet up in person with fellow clients in your city and forge lifelong friendships.
Partner up with an accountability buddy or pod to share your journey and hold you accountable to your romantic goals.
COMMUNITY REVIEWS
“For the first time in a year, I had an amazing date and it was my first set up! For starters, I had a personal coaching session with Em before the date. She opened my eyes and gave me some pointers that made dating actually enjoyable! I hated dating and saw it as a necessary torture – but she helped me realize how to better approach the date and it paid off!
The actual date itself was incredible because we had so much in common. He was engaging and we share core beliefs. Unlike painful Match dates, the conversation flowed and he was incredible to talk to. I am not doing this dating thing along anymore! Em’s team are experts in their field and I am thankful to have them in my life.”
emlovz is a great coaching service. Dating in my early 60s is a huge challenge. My age group thinks that they know it all when it comes to relationships.
Already, the information I have been given through emlovz from their recommended reading to their on-line coaching sessions has improved my perception on how to find men that are more in tune with my dating goals.
Through emlovz I am learning more about myself and getting clearer in regards to the attachment styles, Secure Anxious Avoidant, that my dates exhibit when I meet them. I never knew the philosophy of attachment styles and their significance.
I am now much more aware of which men are more harmonious for me. I have many more books from emlovz’s recommended book list to read and many more zoom calls of coaching to look forward to. They are making dating far less mysterious. I wish I had worked with them sooner. I so very much appreciate their experience.”
“Let’s face it, dating is hard! Especially in San Francisco! Thankfully, I had Em to help. Her knowledge and advice is practical and doable. It can be a challenge at times, but of it wasn’t for her perspective, I wouldn’t feel as confident as I do now.”
Highly highly recommend!
Our Unique Approach
Join the #1 dating coaching program for women that’s dedicated to helping you find a long term partner in record time.
- Lifetime Membership
- Unlimited Coaching
- Community Focused
- Evidence Based Curriculum
- 11 Expert Coaches
- Third Party Reviews
Other Options
- 5 Week Course
- No Coaching
- On Your Own
- Single Coach's Viewpoint
- 1 or 2 Coaches
- No Third Party Reviews
AS SEEN IN
FAQS
A dating coach for women is a mate selection & courtship expert that will help you achieve your romantic goals.
But as you’ve seen, emlovz isn’t just a single dating coach, but a community of coaches that will help you identify your ideal partner, attract compatible men on dating apps & in the real world, MegaDate, show up as your best self on your dates, and most importantly, find a lifetime partner.
In 2023, we introduced Dating Decoded for Women following 12 years of coaching men and gaining profound insights into their motivations for seeking love. Throughout this time, women who persisted in seeking our guidance received our coaching, leading us to recognize that we possess a unique perspective to offer women after devoting significant attention to men for so long.
emlovz isn’t just one person, it’s an entire team of dating consultants and experts working relentlessly towards one goal: finding you an unbelievable partner.
Our dating coaches offer perspectives from both male and female points of view. Our coaches are also millennials as well as Gen-X and Gen-Zers. We know how to help you speak with the opposite sex regardless of their age, background, or love language. We’re both online dating coaches that will teach you the way of the swipe, but also teach you the in-real-life dating skills you need to know.
Our program, Dating Decoded for Women includes:
- Live Weekly Coaching Calls
- Robust Online Curriculum
- The emlovz workbook
- Private Coaching Sessions:
- Mock dates with Paul or Darshil
- 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
- Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli
- Style session with Hailey
- Social media optimization with Mia
- Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
- Anxiety session with Renee
- Sex & intimacy session with Tilly
- Accountability Buddies & Full Social Network
But perhaps most importantly, we won’t abandon you after a set period of time like other coaches. Enrolling in Dating Decoded means you’ll have access to our program (and coaching) for life.
Upon joining Dating Decoded, you’ll seamlessly connect with a vibrant social network comprising of women all looking to re-write their love stories.
In addition, you’ll have the opportunity to join an accountability pod in most major metros, where our students gather for real-life meetups and support. While we cannot offer guarantees, if we identify a potential match for you within our men’s program, we’ll facilitate an introduction for you.
We have worked with women from 18 to 75 years of age.
We give unlimited profile reviews as dating is an experiment, you’ll have to optimize as you go. Tweaking a profile every few weeks will help you appeal to the type of men you most want to attract.
We’re not about single sessions – we’re in it for the long haul. That means creating a meaningful and lasting transformation, not just dishing out some quick tips so you can get a couple more Tinder matches.
You tell me.
Do you have an ounce of hope and 30 minutes a day to put the work in?
Then yes, dating coaching will work for you.
Our most successful students are open to trying new things and are coachable.
That may mean stepping out of your comfort zone. It means really listening and absorbing our advice and applying it over and over again.
Our techniques have worked for thousands of single people, why wouldn’t they work for you too?
It all starts with a 20-min onboarding call with an emlovz team member.
During this call we’re going to get to know each other better and show you how to get the most from our program.
That means showing you how to access the weekly strategy sessions, gain access to our online community, and show you how to use our online learning platform.
We use a multi-pronged approach to turn our female students into expert daters.
Here’s how.
Community
Nobody wants to navigate the dating journey alone. That’s why we’ve cultivated a community of women just like you. To alleviate the challenges of being single, we pair students with an accountability buddy who understands your experiences firsthand. Our community offers a supportive environment for celebrating successes, sharing setbacks, forming connections, and receiving real-time feedback on any dating-related inquiries you may have.
Online Curriculum
Over the past 12 years, we’ve gained extensive insights into how men operate. To share everything we’ve learned and empower women, we’ve developed an online learning platform covering virtually every romantic topic imaginable. Whether it’s mastering the art of securing a second date or enhancing intimacy, our curriculum addresses all aspects of dating. This self-paced program is continuously updated and expanded to ensure it remains comprehensive and relevant.
Mock Dates
Wouldn’t it be amazing if after a date you could ask a man what he thought and actually receive honest feedback? That’s where our mock dates experts Darshil and Paul come in. After a mock date (either online or IRL) you’ll receive feedback on what worked and what needs improvement.
Weekly Strategy Sessions
We know how dynamic and nuanced dating is. That’s why every week you’ll have the opportunity to get coaching & feedback directly from me (live, uninterrupted).
Private Strategy Sessions
VIP members will receive 6 private 50 minute coaching sessions to be used with any emlovz coach.
Dating Decoded VIP is for clients that want a little extra help. When you sign up for our VIP program you’ll receive everything we’ve already touched and more.
Specifically, you’ll receive six 50-minute 1-on-1 sessions that can be used for the following:
- Mock dates with Paul and Darshil
- 1-on-1 coaching with Emyli or Thomas
- Profile reviews with Audrey, Darshil, or Emyli (me)
- Style session with Hailey
- Social media optimization with Mia
- Confidence session or NYC strategy session with Darshil
- Anxiety session with Renee
- Sex & intimacy session with Tilly
Use these six sessions in whatever way you think would most benefit you.
That means if you want to go on six mock dates with our dating expert Brooke, go ahead and do so (just don’t fall in love!).
While Thomas and I are from the San Francisco Bay Area, our coaches are from all over the USA.
What matters most is that you find a coach whose work resonates with you.
Do you think this coach can help you achieve what you’re looking for?
That’s the only question that matters.
That being said our clients often meet up in person and we also offer mock dates in person depending on where you’re located.
If this is the case, start by watching our program overview video first. For most men, watching this video is all it takes to determine if our program is the right fit for them.
You can also take a look at our brochure.
Click this magic link to schedule your intro call with a member of our team.